Vinegar Valentines: The Darker Side of Love at Bodmin Jail
Valentine’s Day is often seen as a celebration of romance, but history tells a different story. In the Victorian era, not every Valentine’s card was filled with sweet nothings—some were downright cruel. These “Vinegar Valentines” were the 19th-century version of trolling, filled with insults rather than affection. While the holiday has evolved, the darker side of love has always fascinated people, which is why Bodmin Jail’s Broken Hearts Tours and Ghost Walks in February are the perfect alternative for those who prefer their love stories with a twist.
A Valentine’s Tradition of Love… and Scorn
During the height of Valentine’s Day mania in the 19th and early 20th centuries, millions of cards were exchanged across Britain. But among the ornate and sentimental messages were cruel alternatives—Vinegar Valentines. These mass-produced cards were designed to mock their recipients, targeting everything from personal appearance to professions and social status. Some were humorous jabs, while others were so vicious they even led to violent reactions and tragic consequences.
These cards often featured exaggerated caricatures and cutting rhymes, ridiculing everything from excessive vanity to lack of ambition. Some were even used to reject unwanted suitors or send a scathing message to rivals. While many were brushed off as harmless fun, others carried deeply personal attacks that could leave lasting scars.
This anonymous cruelty mirrors modern-day social media, where hidden identities allow people to say things they wouldn’t dare in person. And just like today’s digital exchanges, Vinegar Valentines remind us that love has always had a darker side.
Step Into the Shadows of Love at Bodmin Jail
If tales of heartbreak, betrayal, and vengeance intrigue you, Bodmin Jail’s Broken Hearts Guided Tour (8th-23rd February) is the perfect way to step into the past. Our award-winning Heritage Guides will take you through the tragic tales of scorned lovers, deadly jealousy, and crimes of passion that led to some of history’s most shocking punishments. Don’t miss out—book now and enjoy 20% off all guided tours with the code Guided20.
For those seeking an even spookier experience, our Broken Hearts Ghost Walk (Thursdays & Fridays, 8th-23rd February) invites you to explore the jail’s eerie corridors by lantern light. Unravel chilling tales of lingering spirits, lost loves, and ghostly whispers that still echo through the walls. A truly haunting way to embrace the Valentine’s season.
A Wild Way to Spend Half-Term: Batty About Bats
Looking for a family-friendly adventure this February half-term? From 15th-23rd February, our Batty About Bats event offers a fascinating insight into the nocturnal residents of Bodmin Jail. Learn how these incredible creatures have made the historic site their home, and discover how you can help protect them. Included with self-guided entry, this is a must-do experience for children and adults alike.
This February, Choose a Different Kind of Valentine’s Experience
Whether you’re exploring tragic love stories on a guided tour, or getting lost in the eerie atmosphere of our ghost walks, Bodmin Jail offers a Valentine’s experience like no other. And for families, our Batty About Bats event provides a fun and educational way to enjoy half-term.
Book your tickets now!
Because love isn’t always sweet, and history is far more thrilling than fiction!